Reader story: My friend told the guy I liked that I wanted his babies
Posted by CB , Saturday, September 24, 2011 3:11 p.m.
A reader story from a high school girl who shows us that unfortunately, guys don't really mature from high school.
So, it all started when one of my friends told me she liked one of my best guy friends...
Obviously being my naive young self, still in high school, ( having pretty much never had any experience with guys cause the dating stuff never EVER seems to happen to ME),
I decided I wanted to try and interfere slightly, to try and make something happen for them, even though it couldn't for me.
So after little time at all, I found out that the feeling between them was mutual. After a little while though, my guy friend had stopped talking to me about my friend, so I asked him why. He told me it was because he thought I told my friend everything he told me about her. I denied it and told him that i'd only told her one thing( which wasn't really that important at all honestly).
He got really mad at me. And when i say really mad girls, i mean it.
I didnt think this guy would ever get mad at me. But he was pissed.
After a few weeks though, things were back to normal... or so i thought.
(*NOTE FROM CAT: See how men pretend they are above bitchy behavior and say girls only do this? PFFFT)
The thing was, this guy knew who I liked, because i liked his best friend, lets call him Bob! And before he got all mad at me (for no reason) we'd talk about how we liked each others best friends.
Unfortunately for me, the feeling was not mutual for some reason...
A few weeks later, standing with a group of mostly guy friends, EVERYBODY started randomly saying BOB in the conversation with me. I didnt understand what was going on and played it cool.
The only person that knew i liked Bob was of course was my best guy friend. This was definitively the first hint that he'd told people, but i tried to ignore the fact and pretend that i didn't care and that nothing had happened, that i wasn't humiliated...
I actually didn't care that much, cause this was a long time after our fight that i finally found this out, and i had moved on from Bob.
But then a few weeks later, my friend and i were talking, and he told me what he'd told Bob.
I was wondering why Bob had been avoiding me for the past few weeks cause we used to have a pretty good relationship, and i actually had some hope that maybe for once, something would happen for me. But now, he was just looking scared when he saw me and I found out why... My friend didn't tell bob that i liked him. OH NO!
His exact words: he told bob that i "wanted his babies, that i stalked him, and that i was obsessively in love with him and told everybody about him and my love for him"This.
From my best guy friend.
And this ladies, is why i hate men.
You cant trust any of them.
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