Sex dilemma!

Posted by KB , Friday, August 26, 2011 9:42 a.m.

So lately I've started dating this guy (yes I know, SHOCKER!!!!) and sex has been on our minds.
So I definately want your advice, dear men haters, on when is the best time to have sex with a guy you just started to date.
A) 3rd date rule!
B) A month- that seems about right.
C) When you feel comfortable
D) First date- you want to know what's up... and what's not.
So ladies, please give me your opinion! This is crucial :)
You can either post your answer in the comment box below, or on the Facebook page!

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4 Response to "Sex dilemma!"

Anonymous Says:

-SORRY FOR THE MESS IN MY FIRST POST THIS ONE SHOULD BE BETTER- ( Can Cath or Kim delete the first one )





ok, talking from experience i would have to go

somewhere between the 3rd date rule and a month.....

i think with a little drink and flirting everybody

feels comfortable and that makes the option C) a

very poor decision :P


i am the real life example that making out or have

complete sex with a guy the first night is NOT

rewarding. In fact the inner male in him ( also

known as the '' penis chain reaction messages that

makes is brain switch off and act like a hairy

gorilla attracting a female to copulate in the

bushes'' ) will probably be seeing you as a girl

he may consider wanting to fuck one more time but

not a potential girlfriend. As a matter of fact he

even may ( 99.999999% of the time on my records)

block and delete you from everyplace possible the

next morning even if he liked you.

to conclude, wait after the 3rd date, go with your

gusts and let the temptation last as long as you

want. Then he'll be listening to you like a dog

well trained :P

wish you luck

August 26, 2011 at 5:44 p.m.
CB Says:

Wellllll, I think that the 1 month rule is definitely the best, although hard to follow sometimes, (hormones you know). But, the 1 month rule should also be the same as 'when you feel comfortable', if you're not comfortable after one month, it's not a good sign either.
It's a tough question and always a potential 'after this he won't call me back' risk.
But sometimes the risk is worth waiting for :)

August 27, 2011 at 11:36 a.m.
Anonymous Says:

i read that 9 months was the rule?
From the what i've read in the book "Act like a lady, think like a man"... And i'm so not a person of self-help book bullshit. But i saw it and thought "what the heck"... at that point in time i had guy troubles just like all of you. And I read it and he reveals pretty good points that i never would of thought of. Some kinda far fetched.. but some where it really made me think. And he says that 9 months is the time to wait? Sounds kind of long to me. But i mean whatevs.

...and sorry if like my whole comment sounds so infomercial ( i just re-read what i wrote.. ouf!!! ) but anyways, it's a good read! Look it up girls! :)

August 29, 2011 at 12:02 a.m.
Anonymous Says:

well seeing that you're dating him i'd say that we can eliminate the first date choice.. which as mentionned previously, (to which i completely agree), is a VERY horrific decision if you want something lasting... after all how doesn't want to take a chance at love. Even though most men are insensitive, and generally bad life choices, we can still hold out hope that there's one good one out there. So my vote is 3 weeks-a month since it allows time to see if he's worth keeping. If you decide he's not, i'd say sleep with him for the fun of it and ditch him while blaming your decision on the sex. Say that he's a good guy so that for the next girl he plays that up. As well, he'll think he sucks at sex which will make him (hopefully!) focus on pleasuring his lady. Overall this permits a better situation of all us gals, while leaving you free to an amazing man.
(Taking into account that one exists)
All the best!

September 8, 2011 at 2:42 a.m.

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